So in delivering "Help For Going It Alone," I didn't go it alone. Instead, I invited Morgan Enright, one of the leading therapists in Charlotte, to have a conversation with me about single parenting and single living in the 21st century. I am including my...
Nooks & Crannies, Week 4 — Help For Going It Alone
So we wind up Nooks & Crannies this Sunday in an unexpected place: what do you do when you're the only adult trying to discover meaning in the massively small places in your home and in your relationships? What does it look like for single adults and single...
Some Nooks & Crannies Worth Considering . . .
As the Nooks & Crannies series nears its conclusion, these reflections on marriage and family from Anna Quindlen's memoir Lots Of Candles, Plenty Of Cake bear repeating: If a marriage is to endure over time, it has to be because both people within it have...
When I Feel Like A Pastor
One day last week, I went to the home of a family in the church to see how the man of the house was holding up after shoulder surgery. No crisis, no drama, no life-and-death; instead, an opportunity to get to know some folks beyond "hey, how's it going?" on a Sunday...
Top Five Tuesday — Top Five Realizations From The Soundtrack Of My Youth
This past Friday, Julie and I went to the Fillmore, Charlotte to see a Led Zeppelin cover band called Zoso. I consider this payback for the two Jack Wagner concerts Julie made me attend with her in the 1980s. Actually, I probably still have some payback built up from...
The “What’s Love Got To Do With It?” Sermon Rewind
After years of keeping my distance from the opening chapters of Genesis, I am now firmly in love with them. I'd never really known what to do with stories like Adam & Eve in the garden, Cain & Abel in the field, and the Lord himself as both a tailor of leather...
Nooks & Crannies, Week 3 — “What’s Love Got To Do With It?”
So will she show up on Sunday? Not likely, But we will take a different look at love in the nooks and crannies of our households. We'll see how the concept of love has been misinterpreted and misused from the very beginning of time. And I mean the very...
The Real Romans Road (Reprise)
From the vault, circa 2012 . . . Many of you are familiar with the Romans Road, a collection of verses from that signature New Testament book designed to lead people on the “road” to salvation. It starts out with our Problem from Romans 3:23: For all have...
My Morning Mood, Your Morning Mood
I have learned something recently that I think is worth sharing: What you listen to when you drive to work affects your mood when you get there. Now: I don’t have a long drive to work in the morning. But for years, I have been listening to sports talk radio for my...
Top Five Tuesday — Top Five Artists Who I Like Better Solo Than In Their Band
You know the drill. Member of rock band gets big head, thinks he is bigger than the band that made him, and strikes out on his own. Only to come back five years (and few albums sales) later, tail between his legs, asking for the band to take him back. Yet every so...